Yes, I realized today when I was thinking of my friend Peter and what it took for him to come out as gay, that it was time for me.
As of today, I am declaring myself out as a lesbian. I am gay and proud of it. I am in love with my girlfriend and something i thought could never happen, has happened, I don’t feel any need for cocks. Like a miracle, the feeling has left me and all I feel now is love for my fellow women.
All my love to all my friends who I hope will support me in this wonderful, life-changing event.
xxx
Nina





why feel the need to be labeled? Life is long and you are very young. Enjoy what you want. You have had so much trauma at the hands of bad people, keep looking for yourself
I don’t feel a need. I feel proud of who I am and I want to shout it to my friends.
It’s not really a need to have a label but my way of defining who I really am. The men whose bodies I’ve enjoyed in the past only ever gave me a physical release. With a woman I feel it in my heart.
It’s doubtful I will change now but life is long, as you say, and I’m not foolish enough to imagine anything is fixed. For now though and in any future I can imagine, I am a gay woman, a lesbian, and so very happy.
Good for you, Nina! I’m happy for you.
Bob, I thank you. It’s cliche but since coming out it’s like a blindfold has been removed and I can really see. The joy is beyond words! xx